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What I’ve learned

January 20, 2008 at 1:53 pm (Uncategorized)

Have you ever thought that rumor could hurt people like angry words? It happened to me, I thought it as a gossip among my friends. Let me explain what happened, how I felt, and how it influenced me.

Before the event, I used to get along with others pretty well. There are some rumors permeated among my friends recently. In the beginning, I believe in our friendship. I regarded the whispers as some jokes. I thought that wouldn’t cause us any trouble.

And then, we all put our feeling on our blog, many other people browses our past, too. Some of them even made comments, too. They are our friends. When the event happened, some of them chose to be on another one’s side. Thought I have explained and told them the truth, they didn’t believe me at all. On the other hand, they thought they were right. I felt bad, ridiculous, and helpless.

I think I haven’t my friend even now. Because she thought what she did was right, I can’t agree with her, and it was the first time I found friendship brittle. But my other friends gave me console. I really appreciated them. Now I realize how rumor cause great damage.